Post by HUNNIMUMMI on Jul 22, 2004 14:24:45 GMT -5
Last wk, my new social wrecker organised an appointment for us to chat, it was for today. i had actually demanded an appiontment 2 1/2 mnths ago, anyway, i turned up today to find the woman off work due to illness, cant be helped i suppose, they tried to ring me.... NOT ON MY NUMBER.... so they tried my house phone..... (they do not have and wouldnt be able to get my house number).... WRONG AGAIN!! so it was yet another wasted journey..... then i see my daughter briefly and i get told that daddy and pregnant dog face gf are taking all 3 on holiday tomorrow evening. social services knew about it but decided not to tell mum as she'd go off her head. d**n F*@ING RIGHT!!! I see my kids singly, for 1 hour a month (1 i dont even get to see that much as he's at boarding school) i get contact in a nutsty little family centre, and i'm supervised, daddy though, sees them every week, all day alltogether and with his pregnant dog!! i have actually told them that on various occasions, one has needed hospital attention when they have been in his care but, no notice was taken. i ve had a meeting with them 2 and a sw and the pregnant dog said she wasnt trying to take my place as mum, and she'd back out their lives a bit, the following weekend they were playing happy families again!! the ex is even taking her and her 2 brats to MY grans house.. saying that sharon is now part of the family!! SOCIAL SERVICES ALLOW THIS AND WHATS MORE IS ACTUALLY PROMOTING THIS!!!! it has now come to a point, where i give up, ive tried the proper approaches, cooperating etc, being patient now they have a choice.... i get the same contact as my ex husband or they can take their piddly 1 hr sessions and shove em where the sun dont shine!! 1 hr isnt doing me or the kids any good, and they are crying out to see tony again, even to their dad.. alll the social wankers (whoops spelling mistake there, i meant to say workers) say is that 'ITS NOT APPROPRIATE!!) well guess what they can do with not appropriate.............any advice on this gratefully recieved before i go off my head big time at them tomorrow in the dept and tonight via emailing the head of social services