Post by living for justice on Jul 9, 2004 17:33:53 GMT -5
:'(I was 17yrs old and gave birth to a perfect baby daughter,one evening my daughter was sat in her bouncing chair on the livingroom floor i had gone in to the kitchen to make her a night feed as i came in to the livingroom the chair had tipped forward,i picked my daughter up and she was crying alittle.
A bruise had appeared on her cheek she was 6 and half months old.
Two days latter at my door there was a sw i let him in and he said there had been a call from the general public that i may of injured my child,i was distraut.
the sw said that a appointment at the doctors had been arranged so took my daughter,i thought everything will be ok its all a mistake and when i have been to the doctors the sw will no this.
The doc checked my daughter and said that she was a well nurished child and well cared for,the ss worker asked on 3 occations for a referal letter to take my daughter to the hospital for a paedotrician to check my daughter over,the doctor refused each and every time and said that he was happy with my explanation.
I was asked by the ss worker to leave the room as i was young it was the right thing to do as i had been asked(BIG MISTAKE)i was sat for about 5 minutes and the ss worker came out with a letter to go to the hospital.
My daughter was checked over,and a couple of hours later the sw came to me and said if i tried leaving the hospital with my daughter i would be charged with kidnapping my own daughter,i was in such a mess i wanted to wake up from this bad dream.
My daughter after a few days was placed with foster parents.
I visited,it was so hard for us when the visit had finished it was breaking my heart all i wanted to do was take my daughter home.
I fell pregnant in 1990 and my son was born a month early,he was born at 208pm and at 209pm a(MALE SOCIAL WORKER) entered the delivery suit and tried to hand me papers,my son had breathing difficulties,and the nurses was looking after me as i was still in the process of delivering the placentre.
I wasnt dressed,i was naked no sheet over me or anything it was degrading.
He was asked on 2 occations to leave the labour suit,so he did.
My son was took to the special baby care unit,he was there for 8 days we came out of the hospital,on christmas eve and went to my parents over the christmas period.
In the jan we had a court hearing and the ss dept was going for a care order,they were refused(THANK GOD)
I thought now iv got to fight for my daughter,the doctor at the hospital was saying my daughter had been squeezed around the mouth area,
So we got another doctor who gave evidence in the court and said this child couldnt have got this injury has the doctor had pointed out if she had then there would have been bruises on eaither sides of this childs face and also the top and bottom ligerments of skin in the mouth area would have torn and split,also red and white spots would have occured around the mouth area and the child had none of this.
But no one took any notice of the medical evidence and the ss dept still had a care order on my daughter.
I was deverstated,i was also pre-ocupied as i was focusing on my son trying to prove i was a good mum and i didnt want to loose him eaither.
The fosterparents were my daughter was the ss dept stated the foster mother was suffering depression and didnt want to foster any longer,by this time the ss dept had stopped my access to my daughter.
They moved her from the original fosrter carers and placed my daughter with total strangers they didnt reabilatate my daughter home to me.
They could see i was careing for my son and they still placed her with strangers.
The ss dept went for a feeing order,they took 2 years to prepare the files (as i no now why they were holding out on time so my daughter would bond with the pre-adopters)
We got a court date it was for oct1992 for the freeing order,the judge returned his verdict and said that if i return your daughter home to you,you will be a stranger to her,i couldnt speak i was numb crying and in a mess.
the sw worker was always against me she always wanted to have my daughter adopted,she was so negertive towards me eveything i did was never good enough.
She has lied,fabricated and also all those years ago she broke confidentuality all those years ago.
She new what she was doing and i have always said she new the adopters,also the sw retired on the day of the court hearing for the freeing order she just wanted to see my case through.
But from that day till this no social worker as been to my door not even when my son was little,it was as though you have got your son shut your mouth and leave things as they are.
I have been writing alot of letters to look at my ss files and they are trying to fob me off,all the court papers have dissapeared(STRANGE?)
The further i am digging the more its comeing together,and the more i am finding out.
My mum has suffered heartache from this sw my mum worked in a coffee shop and the sw went in talking about her grandchildren and she asked my mum how her grandaughter was this happened on a few times but my mum didnt tell me till a few weeks ago she didnt want to upset me.
How can someone who worked for such a high profile job get away with what they have done to my family.
They make you feel ashamed as though you have done something wrong and as i was so busy caring for my son and trying to prove i was a good mum,my son is 14yrs old now and can speak for him self if he wants.
I am fighting to get my case in the review all i want is justice,to clear my name and for the truth to be put on my daughters files for when she can read them she is now 15yrs old.
I want my daughter to know how much i love her and that i never gave up the fight for her,as every day that goes by i get stronger and stronger as i know justice will be done one day.
living for justice
A bruise had appeared on her cheek she was 6 and half months old.
Two days latter at my door there was a sw i let him in and he said there had been a call from the general public that i may of injured my child,i was distraut.
the sw said that a appointment at the doctors had been arranged so took my daughter,i thought everything will be ok its all a mistake and when i have been to the doctors the sw will no this.
The doc checked my daughter and said that she was a well nurished child and well cared for,the ss worker asked on 3 occations for a referal letter to take my daughter to the hospital for a paedotrician to check my daughter over,the doctor refused each and every time and said that he was happy with my explanation.
I was asked by the ss worker to leave the room as i was young it was the right thing to do as i had been asked(BIG MISTAKE)i was sat for about 5 minutes and the ss worker came out with a letter to go to the hospital.
My daughter was checked over,and a couple of hours later the sw came to me and said if i tried leaving the hospital with my daughter i would be charged with kidnapping my own daughter,i was in such a mess i wanted to wake up from this bad dream.
My daughter after a few days was placed with foster parents.
I visited,it was so hard for us when the visit had finished it was breaking my heart all i wanted to do was take my daughter home.
I fell pregnant in 1990 and my son was born a month early,he was born at 208pm and at 209pm a(MALE SOCIAL WORKER) entered the delivery suit and tried to hand me papers,my son had breathing difficulties,and the nurses was looking after me as i was still in the process of delivering the placentre.
I wasnt dressed,i was naked no sheet over me or anything it was degrading.
He was asked on 2 occations to leave the labour suit,so he did.
My son was took to the special baby care unit,he was there for 8 days we came out of the hospital,on christmas eve and went to my parents over the christmas period.
In the jan we had a court hearing and the ss dept was going for a care order,they were refused(THANK GOD)
I thought now iv got to fight for my daughter,the doctor at the hospital was saying my daughter had been squeezed around the mouth area,
So we got another doctor who gave evidence in the court and said this child couldnt have got this injury has the doctor had pointed out if she had then there would have been bruises on eaither sides of this childs face and also the top and bottom ligerments of skin in the mouth area would have torn and split,also red and white spots would have occured around the mouth area and the child had none of this.
But no one took any notice of the medical evidence and the ss dept still had a care order on my daughter.
I was deverstated,i was also pre-ocupied as i was focusing on my son trying to prove i was a good mum and i didnt want to loose him eaither.
The fosterparents were my daughter was the ss dept stated the foster mother was suffering depression and didnt want to foster any longer,by this time the ss dept had stopped my access to my daughter.
They moved her from the original fosrter carers and placed my daughter with total strangers they didnt reabilatate my daughter home to me.
They could see i was careing for my son and they still placed her with strangers.
The ss dept went for a feeing order,they took 2 years to prepare the files (as i no now why they were holding out on time so my daughter would bond with the pre-adopters)
We got a court date it was for oct1992 for the freeing order,the judge returned his verdict and said that if i return your daughter home to you,you will be a stranger to her,i couldnt speak i was numb crying and in a mess.
the sw worker was always against me she always wanted to have my daughter adopted,she was so negertive towards me eveything i did was never good enough.
She has lied,fabricated and also all those years ago she broke confidentuality all those years ago.
She new what she was doing and i have always said she new the adopters,also the sw retired on the day of the court hearing for the freeing order she just wanted to see my case through.
But from that day till this no social worker as been to my door not even when my son was little,it was as though you have got your son shut your mouth and leave things as they are.
I have been writing alot of letters to look at my ss files and they are trying to fob me off,all the court papers have dissapeared(STRANGE?)
The further i am digging the more its comeing together,and the more i am finding out.
My mum has suffered heartache from this sw my mum worked in a coffee shop and the sw went in talking about her grandchildren and she asked my mum how her grandaughter was this happened on a few times but my mum didnt tell me till a few weeks ago she didnt want to upset me.
How can someone who worked for such a high profile job get away with what they have done to my family.
They make you feel ashamed as though you have done something wrong and as i was so busy caring for my son and trying to prove i was a good mum,my son is 14yrs old now and can speak for him self if he wants.
I am fighting to get my case in the review all i want is justice,to clear my name and for the truth to be put on my daughters files for when she can read them she is now 15yrs old.
I want my daughter to know how much i love her and that i never gave up the fight for her,as every day that goes by i get stronger and stronger as i know justice will be done one day.
living for justice
