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Post by natdad75 on Jun 29, 2004 17:18:00 GMT -5
i'm a natural dad, trying to deal with my daughter being taken in march this year and my partner losing her kids aswell due to social services. she advised me to give this site a go as she comes here and has been given some helpfull advice and sites. i'd like to chat to DADS that understand
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Post by David on Jun 29, 2004 17:36:47 GMT -5
Hi natdad, I am David and the admin to this forum. You must be Hunnimummi's partner. I started this board and a website which has resulted into a campaign. My son was removed at birth by SS and my intentions are to get him back and to help others going through the same. So I am nearly always here for support. David[glow=red,2,300]FAMILIESFORJUSTICE[/glow]
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Marc
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Post by Marc on Jul 2, 2004 21:10:10 GMT -5
Hi Natdad
I am Marc founder of P.A.C.T and socialservicesabuse.com. I too am a father going through the trauma of losing a child to this system. That too like David led to the site, support group and a campaign. Everyone thinks of us blokes as hardened, yet we feel pain and angish as well. We may not show it in the way same as the fairer sex, yet we too feel the heartbreak.
David is an exceptional guy, you will be in safe hands here. If David is unavailable for whatever reason, send me a line, we must stick together.
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Post by David on Jul 3, 2004 2:35:03 GMT -5
Hi Marc, natdad75, I agree with you Marc us men are believed to have no feelings but deep down we have and they are just as life destroying as they are in females. It is the way man is, to be the stronger of the sexes and this means not showing our feelings so much but their there and hurt just as much even though they don't show. David[glow=red,2,300]FAMILIESFORJUSTICE[/glow]
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Post by livingforjustice on Jul 3, 2004 20:25:42 GMT -5
:)Hi nat dad,im sorry im not a male im a female,i agree dads do need support to,were all human and and weather your a mum or dad we all have the same strong bonds with our children. I lost my daughter,14 years ago and im still fighting for justice and will tommorow and the day after,and you have come to the right place,im a new member and i have been made to feel welcome,and it helps because were all hear for the same thing good advise,a good support from honest people who have feelings hope to speak to you soon living for justice
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HUNNIMUMMI
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im a 'reasonably' young mum who has lost my children
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Post by HUNNIMUMMI on Jul 7, 2004 5:38:49 GMT -5
thanks to all that have posted a reply to natdad, as most are aware, he's my partner and has been having a tough time, although unlike me, he hasn't got anyone other than me to share things with. we want to go on this rally, but at the mo i've got to check out my shifts, as i do 24hr stints in a mental health unit (much more crap with ssd and i'll book a bed!!) but if i cant go, believe me, i'll put the word around. david if you could possibly do me a flyer, i'll print some out and leave them on the desk in ssd. i'm having contact with my oldest daughter tomorrow, who is fostered and i will give her your link and pass on the website address, also to the woman who is a volunteer that supervises my contact-she is really nice and very supportive, she doesn't agree with whats gone on either, shes called leslie so i expect she'll pop in at some time to have a look here,,,,, hello leslie if u see this!!
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Post by David on Jul 7, 2004 14:51:39 GMT -5
Hi Hunnimummi, I WILL SEND YOU A NEWSLETTER BY EMAIL OK. I hope you manage to get to this Rally but if you can't make it i know we have your support and thats what counts. Also thanks for handing out links to my site and hope the members will build up. It would also be very helpful to have your contact superviser on board so hope she does visit and let us know her views and she can do it annonimously if she wanted.
David
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